Every Friday, I’ll post thought provoking discussion starters. — I recently heard a gold medal winner from years ago state that gold medals are won by making wise decisions every day. What do you think he meant? How could you explain this principle to children? How could you help them apply the same principle so victory is more likely in whatever they’re involved in (e.g., writing a great English paper, earning a spot on a sports team, being chosen by a neighbor to be their new babysitter)? What about in your life? … [Read more...]
Thought Provoking Discussion Starters #28: Gold Medals = Wise Decisions on a Daily Basis
The Value of Competition and Negative Impact of Cheating
Students like to win. I remember simple competitive games that totally changed the motivation and interest of my second graders many years ago. They focused differently, cheered for members of their team, and enjoyed the change of pace. The activities provided effective and efficient practice of math facts, spelling words, and social studies details. Because of the influence of video, computer, and online games and competition TV shows, today’s students want to win more than mine did. More importantly, perhaps, they may mistakenly believe they’re entitled to win. What if their fear about losing coupled with their entitlement mindset causes young people to cheat to win? They copy and paste someone else’s work into theirs to … [Read more...]


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